April 29, 2009
Suffering has been stronger than all other teaching, and has taught me to understand what your heart used to be. I have been bent and broken, but–I hope–into a better shape. Estella to Pip, Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, chap. 59 But he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I […]
12 Comments |
Pastoral Care, Personal | Tagged: Bible-Job, Grief, Lament, Meaning, Providence, Suffering |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks
April 28, 2009
Yesterday I posted two articles by my hand from the 1981 Gospel Advocate. These were my first atttempts, at the age of twenty-three, to write (even publicly speak of) the loss of my wife in 1980. Reading them again after so long–I don’t think I have read them or perhaps even thought of them in […]
16 Comments |
Pastoral Care, Personal | Tagged: Bible-Job, Bible-Psalms, Death, Grief, Lament, Providence, Sheila Pettit Hicks, Suffering |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks
December 7, 2008
To forgive God is, for many–if not most, a necessary bridge to praising him. But it is a difficult idea to grab hold of–how does one forgive God? What does that mean? And, indeed, it sounds blasphemous….as if God has done something wrong that needs forgiveness. And who are we to forgive God anyway? We are […]
16 Comments |
Pastoral Care, Personal, Theology | Tagged: Anger, Bible-Job, Bitterness, Forgiveness, God, Lament, Pain, Praise, Resentment, Suffering, Thanksgiving, Theodicy |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks
June 10, 2008
In my first post, I enumerated Eliphaz’s pastoral mistakes (Job 4-5) and Job’s response to his “friend.” In this post Bildad responds to Job’s rejection of Eliphaz’s counsel (Job 8 ) and Job reacts to Bildad (Job 9-10). Bildad’s “Counsel” Whatever God does is just. God destroyed your life. Therefore, you deserved it. With shocking pastoral insensitivity […]
4 Comments |
Biblical Texts, Pastoral Care | Tagged: Bible-Job, Comfort, Job, Lament, Pastoral Care, Providence, Suffering |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks
June 9, 2008
Actually, I’m more interested in Job’s journey of faith than I am his “miserable comforters” (Job 16:2), but for the present I want to take a closer look at these “comforters.” I have decided to do this as an exercise for my own spirituality over the next few weeks because sometimes, in the midst of my grief, […]
11 Comments |
Biblical Texts, Pastoral Care | Tagged: Bible-Job, Comfort, Grief, Job, Pastoral Care, Suffering |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks
June 8, 2008
Was Job right? He was, I have no doubt, right about his feelings. His losses seemed to have no meaning from his vantage point. Sitting on the trash pile, thinking about his children, his wife, his isolation, his “miserable comforters,” and his future prospects, it would be well-nigh impossible for him to find meaning in […]
4 Comments |
Biblical Texts, Pastoral Care | Tagged: Bible-Job, Comfort, Grief, Job, Pastoral Care, Suffering, Witness |
Permalink
Posted by John Mark Hicks